Obama's first misstep in weeks: opposes gay ban

Senator Obama,

You were on a roll.  For the last 8 - 10 major decisions of your campaign you were making sense.  You were defining yourself with the best of America.  You were being a leader of the Democratic Party with a vision for a lasting Majority.

Then you lapsed back into left-wing land:

There is now way to square this circle:

You believe marriage should remain an institution between 1 man and 1 woman. (really radical, by the way!)

but... you announced in a letter to a gay rights group:

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cg i?f=/c/a/2008/07/01/MN8J11I731.DTL

that you oppose the "gay marriage ban"?

What does that mean?

The courts --who aren't the people.  Who aren't elected by the people.  Who aren't appointed by the current people elected by the people necessarily--- said that California must recognize same sex unions.

This was a horrible decision because it is not their place to tell the people of California what their cultural mores and subsequent laws should be except for very narrow constitutional issues.  This isn't one of them.

I would say that even if the court said, the state was forbidden to offer same-sex marriage licenses.

This is a political issue.  Now the people in California get to speak.

Obama calls them voices HIS OPINION: divisive?

We the people through our government have a right to define right-wrong, good-bad.  That is democracy.  Sometimes we win and othertimes we lose.

I support vouchers, others don't.  They win, I lose.  It's not a constitutional issue for a court to decide.

The people should decide, and politicians should offer leadership.

Obama should have restated his position against these same sex marriages if that is his position, and moved on to another topic.

If Obama supports SSM like Arnold, then state that and move on.

But don't out Clinton the Clintons'.  I supported Hillary because I felt she and Bill would find ways to deal with issues like this.

obama's way, this time makes no sense.
It is wrong.

Though, I'm still happy overall that he is our nominee and was making sense until today.



Display:


Most people who want to ban gay marriage (2.00 / 8)

are fucking sick. I let it slide with older people because some of them don't know any better. But no one posting here should be against gay marriage. If you want to ban it, then you're fucking sick too.

I'm tired of the goddamn discrimination and hate.


Even John McCain lusts after teh engels.
by sricki on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 10:48:02 AM EST

so a majority of americans (none / 0)

are sick?

It's sick to want to do a normal thing?

keep a human institution the way it is, and in fact work to make it stronger?

let's try this:

1 man should marry 1 woman, and stay married.

The man and woman should procreate, and the woman should have the baby while still being married to the same man.

They should work together for the next 18 years to raise that child.

...that's sick? Unless I include other human relationships in the above? on equal footing?


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:41:23 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Yeah, it's sick, (2.00 / 3)

and I don't care how many Americans support it. If the majority of Americans supported banning interracial marriage (as they once did), wouldn't that be sick? Was it not sick for people to oppose desegregation? The fact that a whole hell of a lot of people are sick doesn't excuse it.

There's no reason to ban gay marriage. Would you care to tell me who it hurts? Who is harmed by gay marriage, honestly?

1 man should marry 1 woman, and stay married.

So divorce should be illegal? Okay. I think you just want people to be miserable.

The man and woman should procreate, and the woman should have the baby while still being married to the same man

So it should be illegal not to have children? What an interesting position.

You. Are. GOP.


Even John McCain lusts after teh engels.
by sricki on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:48:49 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Yeah, it's sick, (none / 0)

i support Obama, and I think those here do too.

If my position is fairly stated, and yours fairly stated.

He would chose my position in the light of day everytime.

Either because he really believes it, or because he wants to win.

Popularity has nothing to do with this except, that the implication here is that a majority of the electorate is "sick" because they believe what I believe.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:11:25 PM EST
[ Parent ]

You still haven't told me (2.00 / 1)

which group of people is harmed by gay marriage. I expect you just can't think of one. Your silence on that question speaks volumes.


Even John McCain lusts after teh engels.
by sricki on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:19:10 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Also notice (2.00 / 1)

that no one is willing to rec this bigoted screed.


Even John McCain lusts after teh engels.
by sricki on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:23:26 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: so a majority of americans (2.00 / 1)

With everything else going on in this country the question needs to be asked; why do we really get that worked up about this. Seriously it isn't like we are at a loss for a REAL issue. Who cares if gay marriage is legal - the only people it affects are homosexuals so they should be the only ones who get worked up & have a vested interest in this!


by jrsygrl on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:11:01 PM EST
[ Parent ]

I care because (none / 0)

along with about 10 other issues.  This is a part of our country's decline:

breakup/breakdown of traditional normal families.
bad education
decline of standards on t.v./movies

etc.

people don't want to acknowledge that if "marriage" is not special because you can easily divorce, because men can marry each other, and women can marry each other, because people can divorce and remarry, people can have pre-marital sex and no one cares, etc.  then there are resulting bad consequences.

I'm not just against this, it's part of a larger problem.  


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:14:41 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I care because (none / 0)

Homosexuality has nothing to do with our decline as a nation. Tax breaks/coverage for 2 consenting adults of either sex is hardly akin to the decay of our education system or the increase in impoverished children & deaths due to a lack of access to health care@@.  This gay marriage crap is one of the manufactured issues designed to distract you from real problems.


by jrsygrl on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 02:55:10 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Straight men and women do not obsess (2.00 / 1)

on sexual practices they take no part in.  When I hear someone get all angry about anything gay related, I assume it's because they're gay.
You know who gets all riled up over gay marriage (pro or con)?  Gays.  So, either chill, or get out of the closet.

John McCain says he would stay in Iraq for 100 years? That's crazy talk!
by kosnomore on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:21:02 PM EST
[ Parent ]

you are a piece of shit (none / 0)

and you belong at redstate.

Get thee behind me satan!


I am sick of the disrespect shown to Sen.Clinton by many on Dailykos, and now, too often, here. You aren't winning hearts and minds.
by SoCalVet on Thu Jul 03, 2008 at 02:59:22 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Most people who want to ban gay marriage (none / 0)

But no one posting here should be against gay marriage

Dear senator obama when you were for it. we wuv you

and now you state you not for it till you come back again to say you are for it, we still wuv you more more more.

Just tell us when we can shift stances to wuv you more.


Rise / Repeat / But for god's sake don't spin!
by aliveandkickin on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:57:09 AM EST
[ Parent ]

For the record, (2.00 / 5)

Hillary opposed a gay marriage ban, too, so don't paint her as an ultra-conservative Democrat.


Even John McCain lusts after teh engels.
by sricki on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 10:49:25 AM EST

Re: Ahem - - (2.00 / 3)

Your bigotry is showing.


by johnnygunn on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 10:53:44 AM EST

What's wrong with you? (2.00 / 9)

Seriously, take this crap somewhere else.  I suppose the Supreme COurt was wrong when it addressed interracial marriage too, right?  

Obama's only failure on this issue is that he's too conservative.  


by HSTruman on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 10:54:18 AM EST

Re: What's wrong with you? (none / 0)

compare inter-racial with same-sex?

One redefines the whole concept of 1 man and 1 woman.

The other accepted marriage as it was, and tried to prevent people from enjoying the benefit.

You have to at least admit, you are trying to redefine 1000's of years of culture.

Inter-racial marriage accepted the premise of marriage, equal rights, and took it to a logical extension.

SSM is not a logical extension. It is a refdefinition of normal.

That is why the people here are so militant and angry.

Yet, my posts are rational and based on logic.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:44:33 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Bullshit (2.00 / 4)

Marriage has not been about 1 man 1 woman for "1000s of years".  Haven't you ever read the Bible?


by JJE on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:51:05 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: What's wrong with you? (2.00 / 4)

Here, let me get that for you:

Yet, my posts are rational bigoted and based on logic the fear of people who aren't like me.

Much better.


by spunkmeyer on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:51:17 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: What's wrong with you? (2.00 / 1)

In my view, marriage is a fundamental right and nothing about its core is predicated on whether the parties of the same race or the same sex.  Rather, it's about the individuals' love and commitment towards one another.  

You can diagree if you want to, but Loving was all about denying a fundamental right based upon ridiculous considerations.  This strikes me as the exact same issue.  


by HSTruman on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:16:58 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: What's wrong with you? (2.00 / 1)

As a follow up, why do you think gay people are incapable of joining in a committed and loving relationship?  Is it because, as you implicitly asserted, they aren't "normal?"  


by HSTruman on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:18:15 PM EST
[ Parent ]

ROFL (none / 0)

you don't know what you're talking about.

about 50 years ago marriage was between one man and one woman of the same race

about 120 years ago marriage was between one man and one woman of the same race and the man had all the power and made all the decesions

about 200 years ago marriage was between one man and one woman and was arranged by the father of wife with the husband

about 400 years ago marriage was between one man and one woman and was arranged by the bride's family and the groom's family, sometimes as early as before 10

thank you for playing but you lose


-7.33, -3.35 The song that best describes life
by drache on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 05:24:53 PM EST
[ Parent ]

forgot one (none / 0)

900 years ago marriage was between one man and his many wives even in Europe

I hope I didn't make your head explode too badly


-7.33, -3.35 The song that best describes life
by drache on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 05:29:02 PM EST
[ Parent ]

I know... (2.00 / 4)

Democrats and liberals. Democrats and liberals are my friends. I have worked with Democrats and liberals.

... You sir/madam are no Democrat/liberal.


Washington Woman
theocracywatch.org
EENR Blog
by kevin22262 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:01:08 AM EST

Re: I know... litmus test? (none / 0)

I never get criticized for being 100% prochoice?

I never get criticized for being for more enviromental laws?--esp. since I have some allergies and other issues where I sometimes have to deal with the problems from smoking and car pollution.

I am against the current death penalty system because poor defendants don't get the same justice as rich defendants.

I support Affirmative Action--which has benefitted me and my family, but also many other Americans

I support a constitutional right to healthcare and education.

but......
if i don't believe 2 men should be able to get a state-sanctioned marraige license with all the rights of a normal couple... I'm a bigot, and not a liberal?

I'm a proud liberal. I real liberal. Open-minded and making the best judgements.

I'm proud not to be a left-winger and a reactionary and part of some ideology.
that is true.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:48:21 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I know... litmus test? (2.00 / 3)

if i don't believe 2 men should be able to get a state-sanctioned marraige license with all the rights of a normal couple... I'm a bigot, and not a liberal?

Um, yeah - pretty much.


by spunkmeyer on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:52:55 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I know... litmus test? (none / 0)

TO be honest, I really have no vested interest in gay marriage but harbor no feelings of prejudice towards LGBTs. At the current time, our country is simply too conservative to legalize gay marriage (hence the numerous bans passing by enormous amounts in various states like Tenn., South Carolina, etc.). The best we can do in our present time is simply to advocate for civil unions and not gay marriage so as to negate the issue during the general election.


by Ignored and Disgusted on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:02:23 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I know... litmus test? (2.00 / 2)

To be honest, I really have no vested interest in women's right to vote, but harbor no feelings of prejudice towards women.  At the current time, our country is simply too conservative to legalize womens right to vote (hence the numerous bans passing by enormous amounts in various states).  

To be honest, I really have no vested interest in civil rights, but harbor no feelings of prejudice towards blacks.  At the current time, our country is simply too conservative to pass civil rights legislation (hence the numerous jim crow laws passing by enormous amounts in various states).

Justice ought to take a back seat to political expediency.  


by Philoguy on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 01:17:10 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: I know... litmus test? (2.00 / 2)

Proud liberal when half your rant in support of a discriminatory ban is against activist jurors? Sure you are.


"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good." Samuel Johnson
by MS01 Indie on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:58:09 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Me thinks you protest to much (2.00 / 1)

You are also more then likely a closet homosexual. Those that harbor bigotry against homosexuals are usually the ones who can't come to terms with their own sexuality.


"In the primary you should vote with your heart, but in the general, you should vote with your head" Hillary's husband
by venician on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:25:47 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Me thinks you protest to much (none / 0)

interesting personl attack.

I think it's like # 15 in this thread.

So I guess people who protest against the death penalty, must really what, want to be executed?

people who support abortion rights, must really be closet pro-lifers?

People who support liberal divorce rules, really believe in iron-clad marriages?

Or is it just this one issue?


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:29:10 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Me thinks you protest to much (2.00 / 1)

Your diary is about one issue. And your bigotry speaks volumns about your fears. Any qualified therapist would tell you that what you are afraid of is your own inability to cope with these feelings.


"In the primary you should vote with your heart, but in the general, you should vote with your head" Hillary's husband
by venician on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:36:39 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Why don't we do this... (2.00 / 1)

I believe in most countries in Europe, Japan, etc. they have "civil unions"... like getting a license .. done deal.
 If you want to get "married" then this is separate but not needed. The "civil union" is the legal portion, the "marriage" is the religious and party piece.

Why not make it this way for everyone?


Washington Woman
theocracywatch.org
EENR Blog
by kevin22262 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 02:41:41 PM EST
[ Parent ]

At its very foundation, this is wrong. (2.00 / 4)

Constitutional amendments are not, and should not, be based on the limitation of freedom. That is the great sin of prohibition and why it was eventually revoked.

The fact that Obama seems to recognize this speaks gloriously to his judgment when it comes to the Supreme Court.


If you're being chased by an angry bull and then you notice you're also being chased by a swarm of bees, it doesn't really change things. Just keep on running.
by vcalzone on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:03:29 AM EST

you do realize . (none / 0)

that many constitutional amendments limit freedom right?

The 13th amendment limited the freedom of many white people to control and own slaves?

that was good. I'm sure you'll agree.

Before that, they thought, felt, and acted in a way that it was normal to have slaves.  Yet, the constitution limited their freedom.

One person's freedom, often impinges on another.

We have to make choices as to who is right. Not just to give freedom.

Some people want the freedom to have sex with children.  That is wrong. Limiting freedom can and often is a good thing.  It's called morality.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:52:25 AM EST
[ Parent ]

What is the moral principle (2.00 / 2)

against gay marriage?


by JJE on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:02:21 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Now That's a First - (2.00 / 2)

Redefining the 13th Amendment -

Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime where of the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction.

As LIMITING freedom.


by johnnygunn on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:11:24 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Now That's a First - (2.00 / 1)

No kidding...


by skohayes on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:18:06 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: you do realize . (2.00 / 1)

One person's freedom, often impinges on another.

Fair enough. The 13th amendment guaranteed freedom for all races. To whom does the gay marriage amendment grant freedom?

Morality is subject to the whims of a generation, and THAT is why moral restrictions are not placed into the constitution.


If you're being chased by an angry bull and then you notice you're also being chased by a swarm of bees, it doesn't really change things. Just keep on running.
by vcalzone on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:38:54 PM EST
[ Parent ]

I really hope that this is snark (2.00 / 2)


John McCain
by MILiberal on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:07:46 AM EST

Re: Obama's first misstep in weeks: opposes gay ba (1.75 / 4)

Careful your homophobia is showing.


Faced with the choice between changing one's mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof.
by jsfox on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:09:18 AM EST

if you use the magic word (none / 0)

is something supposed to happen.

Name calling is the refuge of people who've lost the debate.

agree/disagree, I make reasoned arguments with name calling or  personal attacks.

Can't say the same for you and the rest.

I know what that means to me.

it means I'm right.

If I think I'm right, I never get the urge to name-call, attack, or demean, because the weight of my argument is evident.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:54:14 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: if you use the magic word (none / 0)

What's your "reasoned" argument against gay marriage?  Committed social relationships are good for society according to empirical data.  Allowing gay marriage incentivies committed social relationships.  If you want to make a "rational" "reasoned" argument against gay marriage, you have to actually identify some harm that would result from it.  I challenge you to do so, because there is none unless you think people's gayness is "catchy."


by HSTruman on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:20:36 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: if you use the magic word (none / 0)

Homophobic is the wrong word. Let's stick with something more generic like intolerant. Your morality issue stems from a preconceived notion of what is and isn't offensive to you personally. It isn't reason at all, because reason requires a purely objective viewpoint. There is no logic behind this. Marriage is a social construct designed so that humans form stable families instead of descending into base sexuality. If two consenting adults wish to form a monogamous relationship and raise a family, I don't care who they are. We need to promote that as much as possible over the alternative.


If you're being chased by an angry bull and then you notice you're also being chased by a swarm of bees, it doesn't really change things. Just keep on running.
by vcalzone on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:52:35 PM EST
[ Parent ]

stfu (none / 0)

how is that for mature, asshat?


I am sick of the disrespect shown to Sen.Clinton by many on Dailykos, and now, too often, here. You aren't winning hearts and minds.
by SoCalVet on Thu Jul 03, 2008 at 03:00:40 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Obama's first misstep (2.00 / 1)

So notwithstanding your views on gay marriage and unlike others I won't pound you for it. Simple because you stated you have no issues if your position fails and I respect that.

But the larger question is Obama who was once again not for the rights to marriage is now few weeks later for it?  

This shifts in stances are getting hard to keep up with. although I do support gay marriage myself.


Rise / Repeat / But for god's sake don't spin!
by aliveandkickin on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:09:42 AM EST

Re: Obama's first misstep (1.75 / 4)

aight I gotta ask why do it,

why come on everyday to troll when EVERYONE knows you are a troll and thus you have absolutely no effect?

you might as well just have John McCain as your name and post bad about Obama you'd be just as effective, so I mean honestly is it because you are bored? or that you think maybe 1 or 2 people still haven't realized what you are and maybe you can reach them?

I couldn't imagine wasting all my time at redstates just trolling I don't see the point but hey kudos to you for being able to keep it up man.

I just dont get it


Obama said, as Bill beamed. "Thank you, President Clinton."
by TruthMatters on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:16:02 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Obama's first misstep (2.00 / 2)

Redstate's much better at silencing liberals than liberal blogs are at silencing republicans.  

I suppose that's something to be proud of, even if it's annoying sometimes.


by semiquaver on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:27:25 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Obama's first misstep (none / 0)

my main issue is that obama's statement doesn't make any sense if he really opposes GM.

If he opposes GM, why oppose the Ban? It is democratic, it's out in the open.  There's no scare tactics, etc.

If he supports GM, then say it, but don't try to straddle the issue in a way that makes no sense.

I don't support GM, but I'm against the ban because its' divisive?

No way.

Stand up and tell the truth, and stick with it.

I realize my position will be the minority in a few years, if things continue, but I'm not going to accept it quietly.

I still challenge those who disagree to stop name calling and use facts, logic, reasoning, rather than emotion and demagoguery.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:57:29 AM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Obama's first misstep (2.00 / 1)

I am opposed to people publicly referring to their wives as "cunts"

I do not support a constitutional ban on the above.

Clear enough for you?


John McCain
by Mandoliniment on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:08:25 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Obama's first misstep (2.00 / 1)

You see, the problem is that you're equating Obama's personal feelings with how he plans to govern.
If you don't like it and want to adhere to some biblical definition that was irrelevant about 300 years after it was written, then that's your right.
But don't be surprised when Democrats disagree with you.
by skohayes on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:14:57 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Obama's first misstep in weeks: opposes gay ba (2.00 / 1)

Courts aren't "the people" and aren't "elected by the people," but they are shaped by democratic forces.

If they weren't, then this election wouldn't be so vital. The next president will be able to select a large number of SCOTUS justices, and you're kidding yourself if you think that isn't a driving force among voter issues.

Judges' constitutional decisions are necessarily against the popular will, often. That's the whole point of a Constitution -- to entrench minority rights against majoritorian whim.


by Skorri on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:17:54 AM EST

we disagree (none / 0)

I don't want judges making political decisions.
Whether I agree/disagree with the outcome it is wrong.

I'm pro-choice, but roe - v - wade was wrong because it is political.

If the court claims there is a constitutional right to an abortion, that is good.  But to get into the politics, trimesters, viability, etc.

This is the court taking the role of legislators.

There is no reason, a California court of 7 people  should define the law for a state that just decided the issue a few years ago.

This is radical. Imagine an issue you think is fine, and 7 people decide to totally over-rule it.

Then you have to get a ballot initiative and overtturn something that shouldn't have been in the first place.

What if a court ruled, a fetus is a human being and must be protected from the second a woman is known to be protect by any means necessary?  What if the court ordered that police and doctors and husbands, etc. could do whatever they thought was necessary to protect the human life of an unborn child.  So that a court could ban potentially pregnanet women from drinking beer, flying on airplane, or swimming, or whatever.

Just 7 people making up the law?


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:02:59 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: we disagree (none / 0)

Your definition of "political" is so broad that there's not a US Supreme Court decision in the past one hundred years that would survive it. Essentially, you're saying you don't think any decision not based purely on solid precedent and unambiguous legislation is illegitimate.

And no, the Court in Roe didn't declare a right to abortion. It declared that the Government has no legitimate constitutional interest in what a woman does with her pregnancy -- until the fetus reaches a certain stage of development. Hence the necessity of going into trimesters. That's not political, that's a practical means of demarcation.

"This is radical. Imagine an issue you think is fine, and 7 people decide to totally over-rule it."

Hey, I can trump that. I can think of plenty of times I thought the law was fine and 5 people just crazily decided to overturn it. But guess what? I'm not on the Supreme Court. (I k Under our Federal system -- and under California's -- those justices are given the power to interpret the law. What they say, goes. We're free to disagree with the reasoning, but that doesn't change that their interpretation of the law IS the law.

A ballot initiative is necessary to re-ban gay marriages because the California SC declared that the law, as it was, did mandate gay marriage. That is the law. You need a new law (or in this case, constitutional amendment) to overturn that. See, e.g., earlier Guantanamo cases and then the MCA and DTA. Right now, the Cali law says (rough paraphrase warning!) it must treat people equally, and not on the basis of sex. The State can't refuse to honor a contract simply because one of the parties is not a male. Ergo, the law as it stands requires SSM.

While a Court could potentially say what your list of hypotheticals says, given that no judge at any level I'm aware of has ever advanced that kind of reasoning, it's not really relevant.


by Skorri on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 01:49:59 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Actually in California (2.00 / 1)

the Supreme Court is elected by the people. The judges are periodically on the ballot. Also, the legislature voted twice for gay marriage but the governator vetoed it. So, this is not an out of nowhere move. Obama finally showed some sense in supporting gay rights. BTW, in CA there are more GLBT voters than AA.


by DaleA on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:04:44 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Actually in California (none / 0)

I'd somehow managed to miss both those facts, both about the ratio of GLBT voters to AA and the Supreme Court being directly elected. Thanks for the clarification!


by Skorri on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 01:51:32 PM EST
[ Parent ]

Re: Obama's first misstep in weeks (2.00 / 5)

Obama's first misstep in weeks: opposes gay ban
Wow, he's willing to oppose the proposed ban on gays?  This guy just can't stop pandering.</snark>

And what's with your opposition to the judiciary?  This is common among right-wingers and I just don't understand it.  Just because you can't comprehend how essential it is to a functioning democracy doesn't mean it's not a healthy thing to have at least some components of government who aren't constantly shifting their positions to win votes.  By their nature they are going to be unpopular sometimes, but show me a working democracy without judges.  

Just because something is popular doesn't mean it's constitutional.  Segregation was supported by enough people that it would have taken much longer to eliminate if not for the judicial system.  

The founding fathers were smarter than you and wanted a government that had checks against the tyranny of the majority.  Look at how well pure democracy worked for the ancient Greeks.


by semiquaver on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:20:03 AM EST

Post a comment, (2.00 / 2)

and defend your abhorrent bigotry.


Even John McCain lusts after teh engels.
by sricki on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:23:32 AM EST

Re: Post a comment, (1.00 / 1)

what a tool.

funny ,calling this diarist a bigot when he has the same stance as Obama on gay  marriage.

I bet if asked that question Obama will recant-- like when he was asked ( just 2 weeeks ago)on his stance on this issue and after CA passed gay marriage and by the MSM, w/ a camera in his face . He said he opposes the gay marraige stance.

So you are going to call Obama a bigot too? or whimper away...


Rise / Repeat / But for god's sake don't spin!
by aliveandkickin on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:51:44 AM EST
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Re: Post a comment, (2.00 / 1)

Dude, Obama opposes the ban on same-sex marriage; he may be personally against it but he's opposed to state amendments that prohibit homosexual marriage.


by Blazers Edge on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:55:38 AM EST
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Re: Post a comment, (none / 0)

Dude, Obama opposes the ban on same-sex marriage; he may be personally against it but he's opposed to state amendments that prohibit homosexual marriage

Interpretation:
Obama --'I officially oppose it by stating so on national TV.... but I oppose everyone else that opposes it, again while I continue to oppose it'.

"Ooo and let me assure you that I will again oppose in days and call that flyer showing me FOR IT as 'inartful' "


Rise / Repeat / But for god's sake don't spin!
by aliveandkickin on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:07:23 PM EST
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Re: Post a comment, (none / 0)

Yeah his stand must be entirely unprincipled, because after all, democratic politicians in the United States have so much to gain politically by endorsing gay marriage.  I mean, he'll be getting oodles of additional votes based on that position alone.  What a pandering creep of an empty, calculating suit!


by Philoguy on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 01:24:11 PM EST
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Re: Post a comment, (none / 0)

Yeah his stand must be entirely unprincipled, because after all, democratic politicians in the United States have so much to gain politically by endorsing gay marriage

Like they had to gain when passing a law to give minorities civil rights?  they should have  heeded to your moral and principled stance back then .  Get back and sit behind the bus!


Rise / Repeat / But for god's sake don't spin!
by aliveandkickin on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 01:53:43 PM EST
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Re: Post a comment, (none / 0)

Perhaps I should have added a snark tag?


by Philoguy on Thu Jul 03, 2008 at 12:13:44 AM EST
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You're right that he's not (none / 0)

the gay rights champion we'd like him to be; however, he voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment and opposed DOMA in 1996. Obama doesn't support a BAN, and that's the most important thing.

You really have no right to call other people tools.


Even John McCain lusts after teh engels.
by sricki on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:58:50 AM EST
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Re: You're right that he's not (none / 0)

he opposed DOMA when his vote was not on the line . Yeah I'll keep buying his word on that. NOT. no more oh because he said so I will follow him on it.

He only opposes FMA because it would impose a constitution ban. Thats because the constitution does not need to be altered for his stance of No to gay marriage.

'Tools'-- oh I 'm sorry I did not notice that someone gave you the high  mantle of gatekeeper to dispense names at others but never be called for the tool you are .


Rise / Repeat / But for god's sake don't spin!
by aliveandkickin on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:55:06 PM EST
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Hahaha, A&K calling someone a tool. (none / 0)

Absolutely hilarious! Thanks for the excellent LOL, man. Maybe I misjudged you!


Even John McCain lusts after teh engels.
by sricki on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 01:05:18 PM EST
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Bigot says what? (2.00 / 1)

n/t


by spunkmeyer on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:30:35 AM EST

yellow (none / 0)

has made his opinion very clear on the gay issue in the past.  He doesnt think the gay rights movement deserves the time of day in American politics.


vote blue in 2008
by sepulvedaj3 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:31:15 AM EST

Re: Obama's first misstep in weeks: opposes gay ba (none / 0)

The courts --who aren't the people.  Who aren't elected by the people.  Who aren't appointed by the current people elected by the people necessarily--- said that California must recognize same sex unions.

This was a horrible decision because it is not their place to tell the people of California what their cultural mores and subsequent laws should be except for very narrow constitutional issues.  This isn't one of them.

(1) The elected California legislature also passed a bill allowing for gay marriage.

(2) The people will have a chance to speak again in November.  I have a feeling they will choose not to ban gay marriage.

What will you say when the legislature, the electorate, and the courts are all on the same side of this issue?


by markjay on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 11:59:21 AM EST

I expect in the future (none / 0)

state legislatures to pass and a governor to sign gay rights bills with SSM laws. On their own, with no mandates from judges.

That will be democracy.  The people will get to judge what they think about it.

I will get to argue against it. Organize it.
The next legislature could undo it, leave it alone, or amend it.

It hasn't happened yet, but I'd bet that it will eventually because the MSM supports it, and many wealthy people.

The point is, the people would then have a clear chance to speak:

not having to deal with constitutional amendments, and legalese, and "undoing" a court action, etc.

Again, what if 7 people on the Calif. court started proscribing how all pregnant women had to act because they were looking out for the general welfare of the unborn baby?  It would prob. be unpopular.  But everyone here would find it ok?

Of course not.

This is left-wing politics cloaked in judicial decisions.  That is not the role of courts to force the people to vote on issues.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:08:45 PM EST
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Re: I expect in the future (none / 0)

Actually, though, the California legislature voted on this before the California Supreme Court made its ruling.


by markjay on Thu Jul 03, 2008 at 05:17:11 PM EST
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blah blah blah (2.00 / 1)

Vote McCain if you're so broke up.  He shares your antipathy for gay people.


Linfar's co-blogger opposing John McCain
by psychodrew on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:13:10 PM EST

Re: blah blah blah--I'm voing obama (none / 0)

according to his past statements.

he agrees with me.

now whether he's pandering to the left or to the middle we don't know.

But for the past month, I'm glad he's our nominee.

i suspect he being a black man like me, agrees with a normal definition of marriage but feels pressure from the left.

who knows where he'll end up.  But i'm going to do all i can to keep obama normal.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:24:11 PM EST
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Re: blah blah blah--I'm voing obama (2.00 / 1)

Yellow their is no such thing as normal. And I know you must be having problems coming to terms with your own sexual attractions to men, may I suggest therapy? Don't worry you are not alone. I have been hit on by more "straight" black men then I could list here. It's quite prevalent in the A.A. community, but rarely spoken about.


"In the primary you should vote with your heart, but in the general, you should vote with your head" Hillary's husband
by venician on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:32:55 PM EST
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Re: Obama's first misstep in weeks (2.00 / 1)

Yellowdem, do you also think Loving v. Virginia should be overturned?

Have you considered joining the Repsublican party?  It seems you have more in common with their constitutional/jurisprudential philosophy.


by costanoan on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:17:18 PM EST

bad comparison (none / 0)

again,

loving did not attempt to redefine marriage in a totally new way.  It was whether the govt. could prevent people from enjoying benefits that otherwise would go them except for race.

SSM says: marriage was we know it, ITSELF is discriminatory and wrong.  We need to change the definition.

At least be honest, and say that this is a radical change, rather than trying to act as though this a normal extension of civil rights.


by yellowdem1129 on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:22:24 PM EST
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Re: bad comparison (none / 0)

Virginia allowed everyone to marry a member of their own race. So everyone had the exact same rights under the law. God intended all those whites, blacks, reds, yellows and malays to marry only others of their type, why do you want to re-define marriage now?


by Skorri on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 01:53:23 PM EST
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No misstep except yours yellowdem (2.00 / 1)

This diary is just so much crap from another judgemental homophobe.  It reminds me of the time I was asked to go talk to a Sociology class about my sexual orientation.  In the first five minutes, someone found out that I had a son and I spent the rest of the class arguing pointlessly with about four people (out of 200) who insisted that I had done a terrible thing to my son by coming out of the closet.  The entire enterprise was wasted trying to deal with these few bigots who seemed to think my son would have been better off not existing than being raised by a gay father.

The best response to people like you, whose minds are closed and whose opinions are based fear and hatred, is to tell you to go jump in the nearest lake.  Certainly rational explanations about why we don't legislate human rights is not something you will hear.


The universe is a casual place, not a suit-and-tie affair.
by mtnspirit on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:44:02 PM EST

Geezums! (none / 0)

Civil rights should NEVER be decided by the "will" of the people


"I am standing with Barack Obama to say, `Yes, we can!'" Hillary Clinton 6/7/08
by feliks on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 12:52:12 PM EST

Re: Obama's first misstep in weeks: opposes gay ba (none / 0)

Given the legal and civil advantages that accrue to those with married status, I am not willing to deny that status to those who are gay.

I have never known of a straight marriage to be threatened by a gay marriage.  Almost invariably the threat takes the form of a heterosexual third party.

Gay marriage is not an assault on religion.  Those religions, or even those churches, that decline to perform gay marriages are under no obligation to do so.   (Though in various degrees, gay-related issues are fractious fault lines in several denominations, most notably Episcopalian and Presbyterian, but also with ripples and undercurrents in other denominations.)

Gay couples have lived under a double bind, chastized for not having "real" relationships (marriage) but denied the opportunity for obtaining same.

I can not find it within me, nor in any spiritual scholarship that I'm aware of, the ability to deny a chance at happiness and fulfillment to those whose orientation is different from mine.  

And, to YD...tolerance means putting up with things of which we don't personally approve.


by InigoMontoya on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 02:14:24 PM EST

Here's what you can do: (2.00 / 1)

continue to hold your views.

Exercise your right to marry the opposite sex spouse of your choice, 1 time, and procreate and continue your marriage until either death severs your tie naturally or you are both so miserable if you are not compatible that you smother each other to death (not literally).  Continue to think that your way is the only way.

Here's what you can't do:  legislate what everyone else can do based on your narrow set of views and beliefs.

Now, go play.


Hell's bells, even the GOP didn't have to crucify Eisenhower's record in order to make Reagan their 'saint'. We can have two great ones, you know?
by emsprater on Wed Jul 02, 2008 at 02:59:05 PM EST


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